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Reply #7 - 07/20/10 at 01:22:27
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Dear Wankers,

Did you know that over 60% of men over the age of 20 are addicted to porn? I have over 20 years of experience dealing with and treating pornography addicts successfully. I know many people like you who may have tried to actively avoid watching porn and masturbating but even though they may be successful for a week or a month the majority of people often relapse. Now this is not because they are weak it is because pornography addiction is strong and unlike drugs the trigger is within you.

Identifying the signs of pornography addiction is the first step to admitting you have a problem.

Six Major Signs Of Pornography Addiction:
◦You spend hours in front of the computer searching for porn each day
◦You have lost interest in your wife, girlfriend and other sources of a real relationship in favor of watching porn. ◦You spend hundreds of dollars paying for membership at various porn sites or pay strangers to have sex with or perform for you. ◦You have marks on your genital often left behind by rigorous masturbation. ◦You can’t think straight until you have masturbated.  ◦You suffer from chronic depression and mood swings.

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Re: Masturbation Addiction?
Reply #6 - 01/23/10 at 04:07:50
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Go and get laid dude! Wanking every day isn't good for your precious bodily spirit....you have to keep your life force secretions inside you! Excessive masturbation is the sign of a weak mind and damaged psyche!


I think that's a bit harsh and kind of creepy to say that wanking is a sign of a weak mind and talking about precious bodily fluids is like something out of Doctor Strangelove!!

Everyone masturbates...well I guess I shouldn't say "everyone" but most people I know wank themselves regularly and I wank off a few times a week...great to reduce stress and just to have some self love, no?

But...what about REAL ADDICTION TO MASTURBATION???

If you need REAL help to stop your masturbation addiction: click here

Masturbation, wanking, jacking off and all that is supposed to be a very normal phenomenon for human beings and humans have been wanking for long before they invented sliced biscuits!!

In fact studies have shown that almost 85% of males masturbate. I jack-off all the time! However an addiction to masturbation and wanking can hamper your mental and spiritual growth and leave you feeling drained and listless physically.

When masturbation starts affecting your day-to-day existence and psychologically it leaves you with a feeling of guilt and shame you may be addicted to the short term pleasure of masturbating.

Like me, you probably started whacking off as a kid and kept doing it but at times, as you get older and start jacking off even if you have a girlfriend or at work it becomes a strong habit and before long a compulsion/addiction and that is when this becomes a serious issue, which really needs to be addressed.

Masturbation is a symptom that generates an urge which should be controlled and moderated because if you find that porn or self-pleasure is becoming a fixation then the time has come face that you may need to stop using porn or stop touching yourself down there!

Contsant masturbation can have a deteriorating impact in many aspects of your life. It definately lowers your sense of self worth and affects one’s concentration powers if you are always thinking about sex and orgams then you stop taking care of other important aspects of your life and the world.

Just like alcoholism and cocaine or drugs, wanking and masturbation  can be a detremental addiction and needs to be looked into.

If you really look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are addicted to masturbation then you likely are!!

Listen to MP3 Masturbation Addiction Help Files

Hope this helps! It helped me.
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Reply #5 - 09/22/09 at 21:51:09
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When I was young we joked about ' wanking' ‘jerking off’ or ‘jacking off,’ of course I knew this was really called masturbating. But calling it “masturbating” sounded like something my home room health teacher would have said, and certainly didn’t sound much like fun or cool. I grew up thinking of it as something recreational that all guys do. I believed it was perfectly natural, and normal. But now I am wanking to porn like three times a day! It’s not a joke anymore people. I think I have became addicted to masturbating. Masturbating had taken over my life. I only want to wank and when I look at girls I only see porn instead of people!

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It looked stupid but it was soooo helpful! But only if you are serious! If wanking has become less fun then maybe you need to break free!

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Reply #4 - 05/06/09 at 13:26:08
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Go and get laid dude! Wanking every day isn't good for your precious bodily spirit....you have to keep your life force secretions inside you! Excessive masturbation is the sign of a weak mind and damaged psyche!

Get on to higher endevours you wanker!!!!

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Reply #3 - 04/11/09 at 02:50:14
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I think I will stop wanking for a month!

It will be a test...I need support through this month though! I am used to wanking three times a day!

If anyone wants to help please let me know...but no funny stuff!!!! Grin
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Reply #2 - 02/21/09 at 02:56:03
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Could you be suffering from wank addiction or wanking addiction? If you have found it difficult to control your current behaviors, then the chances are it has become a sexual addiction. However, you are not alone. Millions of other people in the world are currently suffering from these sexual addictions and seeking treatment or rehab. Though certainly not impossible, these addictions can be the most difficult of all destructive habits to overcome.

When most people say they are addicted to wanking they are most likely speaking specifically of online wanking. You can of course be addicted to any type of wanking but the rate at which a wanking    addiction progresses can be exponentially faster with access to the online Internet sources of wanking material. The reason for this should be obvious as you have access to an unlimited amount of wanking on the online porn in varying degrees of graphic nature. It takes little effort for an online   wank  addiction to escalate and before you know it, you are looking at things you thought you would never look at. The shock and shame cause you to feel hopeless and out of control.

Wank is destructive in all forms, to include movies, magazines, and billboards. Online wank is equally destructive at a faster rate and professional treatment or rehab may be necessary depending on the level of sexual addiction.

No matter how harmless you may think the level of wank is that you may be viewing, it always leads to something worse. There is only one direction to go when you choose to look at wank  and that is in a downward spiral. You can only stay at the same level of viewing so long before your body is no longer satisfied and needs something more harsh or graphic to be satisfied. This almost always leads to some level of acting out ,starting with solo wanking  and getting worse from there. Compulsive wanking and compulsive jacking off viewing porn can truly can be compared to being addicted to drugs, but those who have been addicted to both wanking  and drugs will tell you that it is even more difficult to overcome a wanking.

Outside assistance, such as sex rehab or masturbation desensitization treatment, is sometimes necessary.  

It’s true that no one can change you but yourself but it certainly is much easier when you have help. Finding the right addiction treatment or rehab program may be the missing ingredient in your recovery. Try as you may sometimes, to go it alone, but you just can’t seem to gain much ground without the help of treatment or addiction rehab professionals.
I myself have sought sexual addiction treatment from professionals and have been grateful for their help. Sometimes you will also need more than simple treatment but a type of rehab to have an honest opportunity to recover.      

There are many who argue whether wanking  addiction is even real. Just ask the millions of people who struggle with it and they will tell you they don’t know how to stop wanking. Whacking off has physical and mental health consequences. When you have a problem with wanking you are not using the body in the manner in which it was designed to be used. You strain your hormonal systems and become isolated emotionally. Your body was certainly meant to be used in more healthy ways!


Used correctly, your body’s sexual organs are meant to bring you and your lover closer together in a bond of love! When you are addicted to wanking there is no bond with anyone but your own fantasies. Wanking   makes you become selfish and anti-social as all your energy is spent on yourself.

Your feelings of guilt and shame make you feel unconfident in the presence of others and hinder your ability to create new relationships. Some may say, in their pride, they have no problems with this but the truth is a person cannot be a truly loving person by committing such selfish acts. True love involves others and involves self-mastery. If you are struggling with this then browse through the articles I’ve written to understand how to reclaim self-control. Also, consider seeking help, treatment or rehab through the advertisers at the top.

Some people may struggle with both wanking and seeking wank partners at the same time. These sexual addictions fuel each other and one cannot be stopped so long as the other is still going. It is a known fact that those who sell wank  want you to masturbate and solidify your addiction so you will come back for more. Even when not viewing wank  it can be difficult to avoid masturbating to the images in your head from the last time you looked at porn. Even if you’ve gone awhile without viewing wanking material like free wank videos and sexy naked porn  but continue to masturbate, you can feel weak and desensitized and seek out wanking again.

Often times you will need additional help such as professional treatment or rehab, to overcome this things. Don’t be ashamed of this, as this can brings happiness back into your life.

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Reply #1 - 02/11/09 at 01:28:21
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Addiction theories: According to some the cycle begins with the "Core Beliefs" that sex addicts hold:

"I am basically a bad, unworthy person."
"No one would love me as I am."
"My needs are never going to be met if I have to depend on others."
"Sex is my most important need."
These beliefs drive the addiction on its progressive and destructive course:

Pain agent — First a pain agent is triggered / emotional discomfort (e.g. shame, anger, unresolved conflict). A sex addict is not able to take care of the pain agent in a healthy way.

Disassociation — Prior to acting out sexually, the sex addict goes through a period of mental preoccupation or obsession. Sex addict begins to disassociate (moves away from his or her feelings). A separation begins to take place between his or her mind and his or her emotional self.

Altered state of consciousness / a trance state / bubble of euphoric fantasized experience — Sex addict is disconnected from his or her emotions and he or she becomes pre-occupied with acting out behaviours.

The reality becomes blocked out/distorted.

Preoccupation or "sexual pressure" — involves obsessing about being sexual or romantic. Fantasy becomes an obsession that serves in some way to avoid life.

The addict's thoughts become focused on reaching a mood-altering high without actually acting-out sexually. He or she thinks about sex to produce a trance-like state of arousal in order to fully eliminate feelings of the current pain of reality. Thinking about sex and planning out how to reach orgasm can continue for minutes or hours before moving into the next stage of the cycle.
Ritualization or "acting out."

— These obsessions are intensified through the use of ritualization or acting out. A sex addict first cruises and then goes to a strip show to heighten his or her arousal until he or she is beyond the point of saying no. Ritualization helps to put distance between reality and sexual obsession. Rituals are a way to induce trance and further separate oneself from reality. Once the addict has begun his or her ritual, the chances of stopping that cycle diminish greatly. He or she is giving into the pull of the compelling sex act.

Sexual compulsivity

— The next phase of the cycle is sexual compulsivity or "sex act". The tensions that the addict feels are reduced by acting on their sexual feelings. They feel better for the moment, thanks to the release that occurs. Compulsivity simply means that addicts regularly get to the point where sex becomes inevitable, no matter what the circumstances or the consequences. The compulsive act, which normally ends in orgasm, is perhaps the starkest reminder of the degradation involved in the addiction as the person realizes that he or she has become nothing more than a slave to the addiction.
Despair

— Almost immediately reality sets in and the addict begins to feel ashamed. This point of the cycle is a painful place where the Addict has been many, many times. The last time the Addict was at this low point, they probably promised to never do it again. Yet once again, they act out and that leads to despair. He or she may feel he or she has betrayed spiritual beliefs, possibly a partner, and his or her own sense of integrity. At a superficial level, the addict hopes that this will be the last battle.


According to Carnes, for many addicts, this dark emotion brings on depression and feelings of hopelessness. One easy way to cure feelings of despair is to start obsessing all over again. The cycle then perpetuates itself.
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01/14/09 at 01:53:49
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From what I read people of all ages sometimes feel more guilty and embarrassed about pleasuring themselves and wanking or sliding their hands between their wet cunts and hard-on masturbation than about any other so-called regular sexual activity, but it is a totally instinctive thing for people to do and not at all dirty or unnatural.

Wanking is normal and masturbation is a glorious part of life!!

Solo sex is the way most young boys and young girls first discover what their own sexual pleasure feels like and is a completely natural way for someone to  start learning about sexual responses and having solo orgasms. There are so many stories about how masturbation is bad and how jacking off is able to harm you physically and unless it invloves stuffing electric appliancesw up your ass they are mostly untrue. In no way, even if you are a dingle berry muncher, can masturbation ruin you for sex with a partner even if it is with a girl and her hot wet pussy or with a man with a big package and a clean lubricated asshole where you slide your cock inside!


If you are like most boys then you learn to masturbate as soon as you reach puberty and often suck and play with your young friends even at the age of ten years old or twelve years old you will whack off and play with exploration of sexuality and in most cases it is before the teen years, and lots of young girls explore their own bodies with partners and with the neighbourhood friends....maybe girls masturbate at a later age but from what my friends have said the girls are learning masturbation techniques early as well!


So many parents are worried about the idea of their pre-teen girls discovering how nice sex feels because they fear this will lead them to have sex with a boy and perhaps risk pregnancy. According to some experts, even though it may be a liberal conspiracy, it stands to reason that if anything the reverse may be true - learning to masturbate yourself and enjoying it relieves pent-up sexual tension, and may help to make later sexual relations with another person more pleasurable, and so can help to make adult relationships happier and more stable.

Masturbation, especially in a western culture where the ego is so important and self-indulgance is considered a normal part of culture, can be a key part of exploring sexuality and developing sexual maturity. While the entertainment industry and media use sexual content and excitation to tittalate and create a need and desire for sonsumption and sexual promiscuity it has literally become a prescribed part of treatment by sex therapists as well as television producers and movie directors.

If a women is having problems reaching a climax and multiple orgasm as an adult, they are usually encouraged by the media and pop-culture industry to learn how to masturbate and wank their pussies  in order to understand their own sexual responses so that they can go on to share this with a partner when they want to have their sexual needs met.

Even if 90% of the population have no such sexual problems, it is perfectly normal for most adults, teenagers, and children to enjoy masturbation sometimes, and, even if they have a partner, there can be times when a person wants sexual pleasure and relief without necessarily involving the other person.

Ahhhhh....the solo pleasure of a wank! Lie back between the pillows and rub your cock or clit until you spurt your wetness and then collapse in a heaving pile of satisfaction!

Some people say it it can be a problem if someone is regularly masturbating, jacking off or wanking by themselves instead of making pleasure with your partner (assuming she or he would like to share it with you) or, if you have no sexual partner, in preference to following up any dates, phone-calls or opportunities there may be to develop relationships with other people. Then you could be said to be hooked on masturbation, addicted to wanking. Addicted to masturbating...or just learning the pleasure principle...it's your call!

I must say I do often hear from women and girls who are bothered because their partner often masturbates or wanks while  watching a porn video or while surfing the internet for free porn, or having sex over the phone, instead of making love with them.

The key is to be able to find time for the ones you love and enjoy mutual sexual satisfaction but also feeling free enough to wank when you need to or when it helps keep you sane!

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