From what I read people of all ages sometimes feel more guilty and embarrassed about pleasuring themselves and wanking or sliding their hands between their wet cunts and hard-on masturbation than about any other so-called regular sexual activity, but it is a totally instinctive thing for people to do and not at all dirty or unnatural.
Wanking is normal and masturbation is a glorious part of life!!
Solo sex is the way most young boys and young girls first discover what their own sexual pleasure feels like and is a completely natural way for someone to start learning about sexual responses and having solo orgasms. There are so many stories about how masturbation is bad and how jacking off is able to harm you physically and unless it invloves stuffing electric appliancesw up your ass they are mostly untrue. In no way, even if you are a dingle berry muncher, can masturbation ruin you for sex with a partner even if it is with a girl and her hot wet pussy or with a man with a big package and a clean lubricated asshole where you slide your cock inside!
If you are like most boys then you learn to masturbate as soon as you reach puberty and often suck and play with your young friends even at the age of ten years old or twelve years old you will whack off and play with exploration of sexuality and in most cases it is before the teen years, and lots of young girls explore their own bodies with partners and with the neighbourhood friends....maybe girls masturbate at a later age but from what my friends have said the girls are learning masturbation techniques early as well!
So many parents are worried about the idea of their pre-teen girls discovering how nice sex feels because they fear this will lead them to have sex with a boy and perhaps risk pregnancy. According to some experts, even though it may be a liberal conspiracy, it stands to reason that if anything the reverse may be true - learning to masturbate yourself and enjoying it relieves pent-up sexual tension, and may help to make later sexual relations with another person more pleasurable, and so can help to make adult relationships happier and more stable.
Masturbation, especially in a western culture where the ego is so important and self-indulgance is considered a normal part of culture, can be a key part of exploring sexuality and developing sexual maturity. While the entertainment industry and media use sexual content and excitation to tittalate and create a need and desire for sonsumption and sexual promiscuity it has literally become a prescribed part of treatment by sex therapists as well as television producers and movie directors.
If a women is having problems reaching a climax and multiple orgasm as an adult, they are usually encouraged by the media and pop-culture industry to learn how to masturbate and wank their pussies in order to understand their own sexual responses so that they can go on to share this with a partner when they want to have their sexual needs met.
Even if 90% of the population have no such sexual problems, it is perfectly normal for most adults, teenagers, and children to enjoy masturbation sometimes, and, even if they have a partner, there can be times when a person wants sexual pleasure and relief without necessarily involving the other person.
Ahhhhh....the solo pleasure of a wank! Lie back between the pillows and rub your cock or clit until you spurt your wetness and then collapse in a heaving pile of satisfaction!
Some people say it it can be a problem if someone is regularly masturbating, jacking off or wanking by themselves instead of making pleasure with your partner (assuming she or he would like to share it with you) or, if you have no sexual partner, in preference to following up any dates, phone-calls or opportunities there may be to develop relationships with other people. Then you could be said to be hooked on masturbation, addicted to wanking. Addicted to masturbating...or just learning the pleasure principle...it's your call!
I must say I do often hear from women and girls who are bothered because their partner often masturbates or wanks while watching a porn video or while surfing the internet for free porn, or having sex over the phone, instead of making love with them.
The key is to be able to find time for the ones you love and enjoy mutual sexual satisfaction but also feeling free enough to wank when you need to or when it helps keep you sane!